We arrived in the evening of the Tuesday and checked into our rooms. For the first time I felt a slight trepidation going on this course with two, possibly three gay men. I got chatting to Andy, and realised that he was gay too. I had an inkling that David was gay, from the way he interacted with others, and especially with Tony, although Tony was in fact married.īoth men were in their forties, and both athletes, who used the gym a lot. It seemed a good opportunity to add something to my CV, and possibly help get promotion. I had got a lowly paid position in a firm of accountants, and after a couple of months my manager, David, told me that there was a course for new trainees coming up, and that I was expected to attend the three day residential, along with him, Andy, another trainee, and his manager, Tony. It was in my first job, fresh from university, that the subject became a real personal experience. As a young lad at school I had watched others masturbating from time to time, but until I was in my early twenties I hadn't really thought about gay sex.
